Homes these days come with tons of storage space in anticipation of what many of us are experts at: amassing junk. Everyone has a few areas where clutter piles up, but it’s probably even worse at your elderly parents’ house.
After all, not only has all their own stuff collected over the years, but they probably have bins, boxes, and drawers full of old stuff of yours—out-of-style clothes, old school projects, college textbooks, and other memorabilia you couldn’t bring yourself to part with but didn’t want to take with you when you moved out.
Whether your goal is to help your parents create more room in their home or make it safer for them to age in place, now’s the time to do a little decluttering.
The Difference between Hoarders and Clutterers
People throw around the word “hoarder” too loosely these days. A true hoarder is obsessed with their possessions and may need professional help to let go.
It’s more likely that your parents’ house is messy because they’re clutterers. They’re reluctant to get rid of things because it reminds them they’re nearing the end of their lives. However, with a little encouragement and support, you should be able to help your parents let go.
Tips for Decluttering Your Parents’ House
- Be patient: Your parents will probably be very reluctant at first. Decluttering to them likely signals a loss and could make them feel depressed. Be patient and supportive, explaining that letting go means making space for something better. This kind of talk should ease their anxiety.
- Find out how much heirlooms are worth: Before you start making a pile to take to Goodwill, consult with an antique dealer about the value of your parents’ heirlooms. Remember, just because something is old doesn’t necessarily mean it’s valuable. Still, decluttering could end up being a lucrative decision for the family if your parents have been unknowingly holding onto some valuable antiques.
- Start slow: The hardest part for some is just getting started. Begin the process slowly by asking your parents to make a list of who they want to give certain items to when the time comes.
- Take it one room at a time: Ask your parents to choose which room they want to declutter first so they feel in control. Keep their emotional condition in mind. After all, while you may be able to look at belongings objectively, your parents may have a hard time because of the history and memories each possession represents.
- Get family support: If they live nearby, have your siblings take turns coming over and helping with the decluttering process. Your parents would probably love it if everyone picked out items they want to take home, since this preserves the legacy and puts the items to good use once again.
Let Us Help
The supportive staff at Advanced Nursing & Home Support can act as an objective third party in the decluttering process. Our experienced team has helped many families improve the safety and wellbeing of their loved ones with professional, compassionate home care.
To learn more, call us at 240-283-4984 or contact us online!
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